Module 1The 8 senses — not just the 5 you learned at school
~8 min
Most adults were taught five senses: sight, hearing, taste, touch, smell. There are actually eight. The three missing ones are the ones that most often drive behaviour in a nursery room.
The familiar five:
- Visual (sight). Brightness, movement, patterns, faces, letters.
- Auditory (hearing). Volume, pitch, sudden noises, background chatter.
- Tactile (touch). Textures, temperatures, wet vs dry, clothing labels, hands-on materials.
- Olfactory (smell). Nappy cream, lunch, cleaning products, another child's perfumed shampoo.
- Gustatory (taste). Textures in the mouth even more than flavours — slimy, lumpy, crunchy, mixed.
The three hidden ones the JLK toolkit relies on:
6. Proprioception — the sense of where your body is in space. Comes from receptors in muscles and joints.
In the room: the child who crashes into furniture, pushes hard on other children when hugging, or seems clumsy is often proprioception-seeking. Heavy work (pushing, pulling, carrying) satisfies this sense and regulates the whole nervous system.
7. Vestibular — the sense of movement and balance. Comes from the inner ear.
In the room: the child who spins, rocks, tips upside down, or refuses to sit still is often vestibular-seeking. Swings, spinning games, and rolling on the floor are regulatory, not disruptive.
8. Interoception — the sense of what's happening inside your body. Hunger, thirst, needing the toilet, hot, cold, sick, upset stomach.
In the room: a child who wets themselves at 3 without noticing, doesn't ask for a drink until they're already crying, or eats past feeling full often has under-developed interoception. It's a real sense that develops — not carelessness.
💡 JLK principle: every child has a sensory profile. It doesn't need a diagnosis to be real — and it doesn't need a “fix”. It needs an adult who notices and adjusts.
Module 2Sensory-seeking vs sensory-avoiding
~7 min
Every child sits somewhere on a spectrum for each sense. In a nursery you'll see two extreme patterns.
🔍 Sensory-seeking (under-registers input): the child's nervous system needs MORE input to feel regulated. What you see:
- Crashes into things, hugs too hard, jumps off high things.
- Spins, rocks, wiggles constantly.
- Puts everything in their mouth.
- Turns up the volume, seeks bright lights.
- Bumps against other children on purpose.
Wrong response: tell them to sit still, stop being rough, calm down.
Right response: give them the input they need in a safe way — a heavy-work job, a swing, a crash mat, a chew tool.
🚫 Sensory-avoiding (over-registers input): the child's nervous system finds ordinary input overwhelming. What you see:
- Covers ears at everyday sounds (hoover, hand dryer, other children laughing).
- Refuses foods with certain textures — often runny, mixed, slimy.
- Distress at clothing labels, seams in socks, hands wet or sticky.
- Melts down in busy rooms with too much visual/auditory input.
- Avoids eye contact, hugs, being touched unexpectedly.
Wrong response: force them to join in, remove the choice, dismiss as fussy.
Right response: reduce input — quiet corner, dimmed light, warning before a loud noise, a choice about textures.
The mixed profile: many children are seekers in one sense and avoiders in another. A child might seek proprioception (loves crashing) but avoid auditory input (needs ear defenders at group time). Both are real. Both need adjustment.
💡 Reframe: “fussy” is not a diagnosis. It's the word adults use when they haven't decoded the sensory profile yet.
Module 3The JLK regulation toolkit
~7 min
Regulation tools at JLK are universal, not exceptional. Ear defenders live in the room, not in one child's bag. Sand timers, chew necklaces, weighted lap pads, and a calm corner are available to any child, any day. This removes stigma and normalises the tool.
Tools for sensory-SEEKING children (increase input safely):
- Heavy work: carrying a basket of blocks across the room, pushing a chair, wiping a table hard, kneading dough.
- Deep pressure: weighted lap pad, tight hug (with consent), squeeze between two cushions.
- Vestibular input: spinning in a chair 3–5 turns, rocking, swinging, rolling.
- Oral input: chew necklace or safe chew toy, crunchy snack (cucumber, breadsticks), water bottle with sports lid to suck.
- Movement breaks: jumping on a mini trampoline, running an errand, dancing.
Tools for sensory-AVOIDING children (reduce input):
- Retreat space: calm corner with soft lighting, cushions, blanket, one book at a time.
- Ear defenders for noisy activities (hoover, group singing, birthday parties).
- Advance warning: “in 2 minutes the fire drill will start — it will be loud.”
- Choice about touch: ask before hugs; offer high-five as alternative.
- Simplified environment: fewer resources on the table at once; visual timetable so they know what's next.
- Texture options: a spoon and a hand-covering during messy play, not a rule to touch it.
Tools for interoception development (all children benefit):
- Named routines: “let's all take a wee break together” at set times.
- Adult body-check questions: “are you thirsty? Take a sip anyway just to check.”
- Emotion-body links in language: “my tummy feels wobbly when I'm nervous. Does yours?”
Setting up a JLK calm corner: soft floor, dimmed or covered lighting option, one weighted lap pad, a “feelings book”, 2–3 sensory toys (kinetic sand jar, sensory bottle, textured cushion), one book. Not a punishment space — a regulation space. Any child can go there any time.
ScenarioReading the sensory profile
~3 min
Malik (3y 2m) has been at JLK Croydon for 4 months. His key person notices this week:
- At group time, he lies on the floor and rolls sideways instead of sitting.
- He hugs peers so tightly they cry.
- He puts his fingers in his ears at the hoover but is fine with peers laughing.
- He turns down apple slices but eats crunchy breadsticks by the handful.
- He wets himself twice this week without noticing until it's puddled.
Reveal JLK sensory read + toolkit
Reading Malik's profile:
- Sensory-seeking on proprioception + vestibular: rolling instead of sitting, tight hugs. He needs heavy work and movement input.
- Sensory-avoiding on specific auditory input: hoover volume overwhelms him, laughter doesn't. Selective, not general.
- Oral seeker: crunchy over soft. Not fussy — specific texture preference.
- Interoception under-developed: not registering full bladder. Real development area, not toilet-training failure.
JLK adjustments:
- Offer him a “heavy job” before group time (push the toy trolley to the carpet). Let him sit with a weighted lap pad, or lie on his tummy at the edge of the group.
- Ear defenders available before hoovering. He picks them up himself.
- Snack: keep crunchy options available. Don't force apple.
- Toilet routine: proactive prompts every 60–90 minutes with adult body-check language: “let's check if your body needs a wee.” Not a punishment for accidents.
- Peer hug: teach a “strong squeeze” on the pillow instead of the peer. Give him the input he needs, safely.
What we don't do: stop hugging (removes connection), take away breadsticks (his safe food), or shame him for wetting.
Knowledge checkEnd-of-course quiz · 5 questions
Pass 80%
You need 4 out of 5 to pass.
The three hidden senses beyond the familiar five are:
A child who crashes into furniture and hugs too hard is most likely:
The JLK principle for regulation tools is:
A child who wets themselves at 3 without noticing is most likely:
A sensory-avoiding child is having a meltdown in a busy, noisy room. The correct JLK response is:
